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Writer's pictureParita Sharma

Therapy Skills Overview

The list provides several key skills that are crucial for effective therapeutic interviewing.


  1. Reflection: This involves the therapist echoing back what the client has said, which can help the client feel heard and understood. It can also encourage deeper exploration of the client's thoughts and feelings. "I hear you saying that you feel overwhelmed at work, and it's been hard to find time for yourself."

  2. Facilitation: This skill helps the therapist to guide the conversation smoothly, ensuring that the client feels comfortable and is able to express themselves freely. "You mentioned earlier that you wanted to talk about your relationship with your brother. Would you like to go into that now?"

  3. Silence: Therapists use silence strategically to allow clients the space to think and gather their thoughts, which can often lead to important insights. After a client shares a difficult experience, the therapist remains silent, giving them space to process their emotions and possibly share more.

  4. Confrontation: This is a challenging skill where the therapist points out inconsistencies or contradictions in the client's thoughts or behaviors to help them gain awareness and consider changes. "On one hand, you say you want to make friends, but on the other, you avoid social gatherings. Can you help me understand this discrepancy?"

  5. Clarification: When a client's message is unclear, therapists seek to clarify to ensure that they fully understand the client's perspective.  "When you say 'I'm fine,' do you mean that you're content, or are you saying that to avoid talking about something more difficult?"

  6. Summarizing: This involves the therapist summarizing the main points of what the client has shared to show understanding and to consolidate the information discussed. "So, to summarize, you're feeling stressed at work because of the increased workload and are considering looking for a new job."

  7. Explanation: Providing explanations can help educate the client about psychological concepts and therapeutic processes.  "The anxiety you're feeling might be what we call 'anticipatory anxiety,' which is a common reaction to thinking about future events."

  8. Transition: Skilled therapists use transitions to smoothly move from one topic to another or from one part of the interview to the next. "Now that we've spent some time on your work stress, let's shift our focus to the coping strategies we discussed last week."

  9. Positive Reinforcement: This involves the therapist reinforcing desired behaviors or attitudes displayed by the client, which can encourage continued progress. "I really want to acknowledge the effort you've put into practicing mindfulness this week. It shows your commitment to your well-being."

  10. Interpretation: Therapists offer interpretations to provide clients with a different perspective on their issues, which can lead to new understandings. "Could the resistance you feel towards your partner be a reflection of the same issues you've had with authority figures in the past?"

  11. Self-revelation: Sometimes therapists may share something about themselves to help build rapport or to demonstrate empathy. "When I went through a similar experience, I found it helpful to journal. It might be something that could work for you as well."

  12. Reassurance: Offering reassurance can help to alleviate anxiety or distress in clients and provide them with a sense of safety. "It's completely normal to feel unsure about this process. Most people take some time to feel comfortable in therapy."

  13. Advice: Therapists may offer advice carefully and usually only after a thorough understanding of the client's situation and with the client's consent.  "Have you considered setting aside a small amount of time each day for self-reflection? It could be beneficial for you."

  14. Empathy: This is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. It's one of the most critical skills for a therapist as it helps to build a strong therapeutic alliance.  "It sounds like you're really struggling with this loss. It must be incredibly hard to cope with such a significant change."

  15. Active Listening: Beyond just hearing the words, active listening involves understanding the underlying emotions and meanings in the client's communication. The therapist nods, maintains eye contact, and occasionally responds with "Mhm" or "I see," showing they are fully engaged with what the client is saying.

  16. Non-verbal Communication: Therapists must be aware of their own body language and be skilled in reading the client's non-verbal cues. The therapist leans forward slightly, showing interest and concern when the client shares a painful memory.

  17. Cultural Competence: Being aware of and respectful toward the cultural backgrounds of clients is essential for effective therapy. "I want to be respectful of your beliefs and practices. How do you feel your cultural background influences your view on this issue?"

  18. Boundary Setting: Therapists must maintain professional boundaries to provide a safe and structured therapeutic environment.  "I appreciate you wanting to give me a gift to show your gratitude, but as your therapist, I must keep our relationship professional and cannot accept it."

  19. Crisis Management: Therapists should be prepared to manage emergencies or crises that may arise during therapy. "It sounds like you're having some very serious thoughts of harming yourself. I have a duty to ensure your safety, so let's talk about creating a safety plan together."

  20. Confidentiality: Maintaining the client’s confidentiality is crucial for trust and safety within the therapeutic relationship.  "I want to remind you that what we discuss here stays confidential unless there's a risk of harm to you or someone else."

  21. Goal Setting: Collaborating with clients to set clear, achievable goals can provide direction and motivation for the therapy process.  "Let's work together to set some goals for your therapy. What would you like to focus on achieving in our next few sessions?"

  22. Flexibility: Therapists must be adaptable in their approach and ready to change strategies as needed to meet the client's needs. "I've noticed that our current approach isn't giving us the results we hoped for. How would you feel about trying a different method that might work better for you?"


Therapeutic interviewing is a complex skill set that requires training, practice, and ongoing self-reflection. The most effective therapists are those who are able to integrate these skills seamlessly within the flow of the conversation, tailoring their approach to the unique needs of each client.

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